My Heart Hurts

Something strange has been going on today and I just realized what it is now, at 2:07a.m. My heart hurts. Like the fish dying in the Gulf of Mexico now, suffocating from the millions of gallons of oil, pouring into the molecules of water, once clean, fresh, alive. My heart is hurting, unable to leap into joy, today, feeling the pain of so many dying for no reason, other than mismanagement of earth's treasures.

How do I deal with that feeling, now?

Once the resource is gone sometimes it never returns. Oil is the blood of the underside of earth's skin. It is bleeding and if you think that it will not cause disruption of the movement of earth's energy, then you must be one of those people that do not get oil changes for your car until the engine ceases. How much more torture can earth take from us? The more we abuse her, the smaller the planet surface becomes for us to find space, water and fresh air to continue our existence.

I spent a few hours yesterday probing the internet. Reading Mission Statements, of many large non-profits, which are claiming to save the planet. I found many tied into some of the most subversive, multi-national groups on the planet. If you trace the board of directors or see which large multi-national "clubs" formed these groups, you could begin to see how the not-for-profit curtain thins, as the profits made from those who contribute, without examining the masks behind the showmen, running the game are being controlled by those who run the banks, oil companies, and governments. Many non-profits do not have such associations, of course.

I cannot save everything, on the planet, since I have only so much energy and not enough money, to save every living entity, on it , like those so impoverished they are ghost-like, invisible, living in poverty and pain, unimaginable to those of us who have food, roofs and gas to help us move around. Take a ride up into the favelas of Rio de Janeiro, some sunny afternoon. You will come back a changed person. Perhaps frightened, as many do, or else more compassionate and stunned, as was I, at my changed perception of poverty, sick at my blindness to what was 3 miles from my hotel in Rio.

When I walked out onto the street that evening to dinner, and walked past H.L. Stern's, I looked down at the green tourmaline, 22 carat gold ring I had purchased for myself, and felt sick, for a moment. Brazil Avg. Income per year - 2,342.00. The women, who I spoke with in the favela, who allowed me to enter her shack, told us she earned about 20.00 US a month. That was a good month.

I thought about the children of Africa, who have been raped or maimed, because they happened to be living inside a man-made, imaginary line of demarcation, which puts them in one country at war, rather then the one next door, that is without such bloodshed on its soul.

My parents once owned a Civil War hospital, in Gettysburg, Pa, which had been converted to a wonderful, warm farm house, with 2 foot thick, stone walls. It had been a Confederate hospital, and then the Union took it. There was a sun porch running across the front, looking over the pastoral view and our fields. A ghost lived there, in the corner of that sunroom. Many people who slept on the sun porch, when they visited, would come to the kitchen for breakfast and say they had seen "him" again. The ghostly form was that of a young man, crouching in the corner, crying, and his crying is what would awaken them at night.

I would sit in the sunroom, when I would visit from my place in Alexandria, VA., and think about him, wishing him to appear so I could ask why he cried. From what pain, or sorrow, arose his mournful sounds, still emanating since July 1,2, or 3rd, 1863? 75,000 soldiers from one side vs.94,000 from another, on that bloody field. What horrors for that boy, I cannot imagine.

I never saw him. I didn't need to since that house sat in the middle of one of the worst nightmares of the North and the South, the battlefield at Gettysburg, where thousands died, more from wounds and amputations, than instantaneous death. Instant death would have been much more preferred by most of them, I would guess, than the grizzly operations, without anesthesia. For me, it is always the sound of those in pain, or breathing their last, which I always remember, and arises in me the memory of their pain and agony.

Today, my senses where affected by the cries from an ocean of fish and other creatures, screaming to the sky, for release from the painful deaths they are all enduring, inside their home of once magnificent water. Hellish and unexplainable to them, a miasma of death, without warning and no escape for the mammals, birds, crustaceans and molecules once living, now destroyed. How many molecules destroyed, I wonder.

The number of electrons in the known universe is 10^88, which is ten-thousand

quattuordecillion. Just for perspective, one trillion dollar bills laid end-to-end,

at the equator would circle the planet nearly 3,000 times.

Trying to imagine how many molecules and living organisms were destroyed

because someone didn't lay the cement down right, at 5,000 ft. below the ocean's

surface, which caused a bubble to rise and blow out hundreds of millions of oil,

and kill not only men on that derrick, but anything within miles, and thousands of feet below,is truly something we all are accountable for since we all want oil.

You and me are dependent on it, and we need it to fly our

planes, run our cars, heat our homes, and make all those plastic containers

that your printer ink comes in. You know --ink cartridges.

We are using Earth's blood to feed ourselves, and provide our comforts for travel

and personal agendas. Instead of Soylent Green, let's call it Soylent Black.

If you have never seen this sci-fi movie, pick it up this week and

then look at some pictures of what that mass of red in the Gulf

looks like from the satellites.

[Soylent Green is a 1973 American science fiction film directed by

Richard Fleischer. Starring Charlton Heston, the film overlays the

police procedural and science fiction genres as it depicts the investigation

into the brutal murder of a wealthy businessman in a dystopian future suffering

from pollution, overpopulation, depleted resources, poverty, dying oceans

and a hot climate due to the greenhouse effect. Much of the population

survives on processed food rations, including the eponymous "soylent green".

---Excerpt from Wikipedia]

Where am I going with this blog, today? I do not know. When the screams of those

animals, dying, in the Gulf reached my consciousness today, I became sad,

then angry, then tired of ongoing destruction we all support, silently,

because we "have to have" something which, in order to get it, we need to

destroy the earth's gentle balance to satisfy our desires.

I know there is a solution, somewhere in our hearts, in someone's mind,

that will allow us to live without oil. We will never have to stab the earth,

with steel straws, 5,000 feet long, puncturing ocean floors, or ripping across

Gaia's body, with steel claws to gather minerals, and strip Gaia of all hers.

We are all one soul, are we not? Maybe this blog today will bring some

awareness into your heart. Maybe you will do something to help.

I recalled a wonderful book, I read a few years ago. It relieved my

anger, about my part in destroying such a beautiful body of water, and all that

lay beneath the Gulf, this week, and the pain, I felt for a few hours today.

Here is the excerpt”

Every Warrior of the Light has felt afraid of going into battle.

Every Warrior of the Light has, at some time in the past, lied

or betrayed someone.

Every Warrior of the Light has trodden a path that was not his.

Every Warrior of the Light has suffered for the most trivial

of reasons.

Every Warrior of the Light has, at least once, believed he was not

A Warrior of the Light.

Every Warrior of the Light has failed in his spiritual duties.

Every Warrior of the Light has said ‘yes’ when he wanted to say ‘no’.

Every Warrior of the Light has hurt someone he loved.

That is why he is a Warrior of the Light, because he has been through all this

And yet has never lost hope of being better than he is.--

Paulo Coelho, The Manual of the Warrior of Light.

I know I am a better human than I was yesterday, or last week. I believe that

as we move through space at 25,000 miles per hour, I am evolving also in

that energy transition. The overwhelming sense of being barren of any solution, this morning, as I drank my mate, from Argentina,wondering how I could to stop earth's destruction is gone now.

I don't stay in anger mode, very long, anymore. It takes up too much energy.

My joy in life always exceeds my frustrations. I am not a ghost, I am flesh and blood, alive, worthy of love because I love deeply, even though I may not show it

in my actions or words, all the time. Love is there deep, abiding and whole.

The one thing that can change All.

That soldier, the young soldier on the farm in Gettysburg, lived in fear and died,

probably, a painful, lonely death, as did many of the beings in the Gulf of Mexico

this week. I send all of them love today, for it is the only thing I have today to share.

I send love to you and hope you are the one that finds the solution,

or part of the solution to end our dependence on oil.

It would be a worthy offering to such a beautiful place

that has allowed us all a home, a place where we learn to Love

and act from Love.

Do You Need More Than Love?

Some things become clear as you walk along a beach. Sound, relationships and life's purpose seem to flow through my psyche normally walking along a long, sandy beach. This weekend, I spent time, in So. California,  to walk the beaches and found that my mind was not focused on those things,  instead it was trying to answer the question of what is it about people that overwhelms me with joy, inspires me, makes me laugh or cry? The richness of it all, the depth, the passion, the love, the truth was the answer for me.

Their stories of sorrows, joys were highlights for me, this weekend. I paid attention to a lot of stories from people who, like myself, needed to understand that part inside themselves which relies on the rest of us to listen, comment and provide adagios for our souls' to touch love.That is our treasure to one another.

Humans are an incredible lot. We create drama, find love, walk away from love, walk with or away from one another, depending on our fear of commitment level. I spent hours walking the beach in Venice, Ca. this past Saturday evening. Had not been there for a couple of years, and found myself seeing many of the same sights that had been there before. The faces had changed, the products, too, but not all. One thing, I love about humans is their ability to replicate historic memories and conserve them for the rest of us. There is something lovely in the familiar, like Constantine's Gate in the Roman Forum, or Michelangelo's, David.

The Venice astrologer was still in the same building and in the same apartment! When I saw the sign on the balcony, I smiled. A little memory laugh rose up my chakras, as I recalled a night, years ago, when a friend went in and came back with the answer he needed about his girlfriend. I think they may still be together. Familiar. 

I have changed a lot over the years, however, not so much, as I stood in front of Jimmy Hendrix, playing his heart and singing there on the sidewalk. He looks just like Jimmy and if you did not know Hendrix was dead, well, you'd believe he was still on earth with us, looking at the Jimmy-double. I was happy to see Jimmy, there. It brought back a memory of a visit to Hendrix's grave, the first time I visited Seattle, at the Greenwood Memorial Park in Renton, Washington.

I parked at the memorial in Renton. There was no one there in the cemetery with me. Not all his songs appealed to me, however, there is a loss for all humanity when a musician dies, as his music rises to the sky with only the air to carry it into the ethers. Notes rising from earth, harmony collectively joining minds and hearts for a period of time, a period of emotional recognition of something in all our souls. 

I opened all the doors on my car, and put on Beethoven's Sonata in C Sharp Minor Op.27, No 2.The stereo volume set to the highest level.

You could hear it all over the cemetery and it was magnificent.

Beethoven dedicated the Sonata to his pupil, Countess Giulietta Guicciardi,  whom Beethoven had loved. The piece came about when Beethoven heard music coming from a house. and knew it was one of his compositions. When he entered the house, he found a blind girl playing the piano. She wished someone would show her how to play the song correctly. He offered to play it for her, and when he finished, she realized who it was. He then improvised the sonata, inspired by the moonlight streaming in through the window.[wikipedia]

I sat at the grave and listened to that incredible, expansive piece as it played to me and the birds, that warm, summer evening, while I thought about a man who had been wild, extreme, creative and gave up his life to the addictions which plague men, like himself, when too much, too fast arises from the creative genius and is sold to the world for the price of a life, his life. 

When I stood there on the beach, in Venice, this weekend, I remembered that day in Renton, and my hope that one day I would like to have someone play that Beethoven piece, to me, alone. Somewhere on earth, which takes our breath away, because of its beauty. Just to sit alone with the pianist and not a word spoken, between us. Just the music, the piano, the light, the fingers, the breath moving from our bodies, and his fingers touching the keys. Just that and nothing else. To walk from that room, together, blinded by the beauty of it all --well, that is heaven to me.

The joy of creation is reward itself. The money, fame, glory is not why a musician composes, an artist paints, a writer writes, is it? Perhaps, the Venice Beach astrologer realized, years ago, and made a decision that the gift they had was enough to be happy.

Paulo Coelho said, in an interview,-- that people think that a winner is someone who is loved by everyone. But as you climb the steps of fame, there's always another side to that. People might be fascinated by you, but on the other hand, those who haven't been as successful are bound to view you with a certain amount of bitterness. That's where the loneliness comes in.--

Maybe loneliness is what overtook Jimmy. It all comes down to a choice and eventually that

choice should be made based on what you really need to survive in this world. 

A man once asked me what I wanted from him and I could not tell him, because he was not the man I would accept those things from, if you understand me. I know now what I want.

I need a roof over my head, food and drink on the table, a warm bed with a kind-spirited, loving man in it, books, art, music. Anything else, any gifts are treasures,given lovingly and with the knowledge they were chosen with love. What is it that you need? Do you need more than love?

Is love not enough or is it too much to bear? Think fast. Act now.

Black Holes Filled With Lappert's Ice Cream

A few weeks ago I was sitting in my car, about to get out and grab some of my favorite Thai Green Curry with Tofu, when the cell phone rang. It was a blocked call. A man asked me if I was selling a Hyundai. I told him, "No, you must have the wrong number." Then he repeated my cell number and asked me if that was the number. Told him it was but I wasn't selling a Hyundai. Then he said, "but this is (and repeated my number again)?. For some reason I felt there was something more going on than someone looking for a Hyundai. I then told him he had reached the Fort Lewis Security Office and it was a secure line.Said that my line must have been compromised and would need to check it out. He sounded upset it was not me, as if he had my phone number and wanted it to be me. At some point we said good by.

The clarity of his microphone is what impressed me. Crystal clear sound as if it was from a sound booth in a recording studio. He had a wonderful voice and my mind raced trying to figure out why I had this very strong sense that he knew me, or had met me briefly,  and was trying to find something out about me before getting up the nerve to tell me who he was, that day. 

Yes, he could have been looking for a Hyundai, however my Agatha Christie-murder mystery -mind clicked in and I wondered why would he call to buy a car and block his phone number? Don't you want people to call you back, if the car is still available? No, I do not own a Hyundai.
I should have asked him where he saw the ad.  Darn.

The call came in at 12:30pm and I was hungry. When I see a blocked number the first thing I wonder is if the caller's first, second and third chakras are blocked. 

If you're afraid of me finding out who you are, then you are afraid of me, right? 
Why? Are you someone I met? I'd just returned from a few days in So. Cal and tried to think of anyone I gave my number to down there. No one, except the car rental company and Paris Hilton's daddy's company.

I wanted to ask him if I sounded like a woman who would drive a Hyundai. I am just not that type of woman. No offense to you Hyund-aid Humans, however I need my all-wheel drive with 5 star safety rating. I had a head-on car accident a while back, and I like to have some steel around me and some power at the pedal.

Dear Mr.Blocked if you need to protect your privacy and do not want to be open with me, please do not expect me to respond openly, while you keep your 5th grade game going on.   

Delving into all the possibilities of who that man is and the purpose of the call has intrigued me since March 4. Wish I knew what it was all about since it all seemed a bit furtive, based on his surprised reaction that my number was a secure line at a military base. 

Hmm, maybe he is AWOL from the armed forces. WOW ;) Shall I continue making scenarios and put together a 30 minute, TV Mystery script? I could at this point. I love mysteries especially with my imagination. It has been fun the past few weeks trying to piece it all together. I know for a fact Hercule Poirot and Sherlock Holmes could definitely figure it out. Miss Marple would have it down in a few hours, too. Maybe I will write a murder mystery this weekend about it. Isn't life fun when a stranger calls and the imagination goes wild? Thank you for calling, Mr. Blocked. I wish you would call back and tell me what it was all about. You have my number ;)


He did create some negative karma for himself, by making me worry because the fuel for my curiosity, inane as you may think, stems from the Monday I returned from California, 3 days before he called. My bank let me know that one of their merchant's computers and POS equipment (Point-Of-Sale) had been stolen in a burglary, and my credit card was one of the numbers compromised. I canceled the card and waited 14 days, until the new one was issued. The FBI and state police were involved so it was a big deal.

So,  if you are reading this, Mr. Blocked, I thought you could have been the burglar. 
You did have an incredible voice. The clarity of your cell microphone, led me to believe it was professional voice software that is how crystal clear the transmission was on the phone. 

So, because you are living in such fear of either people finding out you have a secret desire to own a Hyundai, and are turning in your manly, double-cab pick up truck, with flaps with those shiny naked girls on them, or, you wanted to talk to me and I threw you for a loop, I am attaching a couple pictures of Kauai, which is where you need to go and get a lomi-lomi massage, drive up to Hanapepe to Lappert's ice cream factory and eat some, 
then head down to the beach, stretch out on a lounge chair, pull your hat over eyes, and get some rest, dude. 


As Deepak says, "Black holes are healed by filling them with spirit.
Despite their terror, black holes are just lack of love." 
Here's a hug, Blocked Man. Run into the ocean and release.

THINK ABOUT LIFE: Art and Love

THINK ABOUT LIFE: Art and Love

Art and Love

There is something about art that has always intrigued me. I wonder what it could be? The answer is it is art and art winds it way through my soul like a bird's song on a lazy morning, right before I move from the pillow and begin the day. It is sometimes a soft chirp and, at other times, sounds like a Canadian goose honk, aimed at my 3rd chakra, jolting me out of lackadaisical meanderings, into incisive, abrupt awareness of the infinity of all life.

Santa Fe, NM always seems to satisfy the art reconnoitre, in me, where my ego-self gets upbraided meeting the sacrosanct art of those who are inspired by the hallowed grounds of ancient, Southwest indigenous power.

I love it there. My body feels good, the air is clean and the majestic mountains and secret kivas fulfill the need to escape my 21st century daily life. There are many places like that for me, around the world, however this sculpture of bronze, holds a precendence as a work of art for me, inspired me today, as I was thinking about a completely different topic for the blog.


Instead, I decided to write about an old boyfriend and something I learned about our old relationship, 2 weeks ago. It was one of those opportunities, you get once in a while, when the past assails your presumed conjecture, of what a dinner party will be like in the evening hours. I had not expected to see him, and as we have spoken over the years, since he is one of my sister's best friends, the mild anxiety I began to feel, meant that something was up. It would be unexpected and probably another lesson from the cosmos.

However, it would be the first time he and I would be seated together, for 4 hours, in a beautiful glass, wood and stone northwest lodge, owned by friends, having a party in my sister's honor.
I just didn't know what it(the anxiety) was all about. Come on, now.The universe threw us together for some reason, and it did not give me a clue before I left for the party.


I can handle surprises, even human ones, the thing is it was also the week I had been working through some past remembrances, of old relationships, and what the real reasons were that they did not work out. So, you see, that he should arrive from California, unannounced (as a surprise for my sister) challenged the unassailable reason, which I had embedded into my memory banks, of why we had ended our relationship 15 or so years ago. Crap! Or so I thought.


We had been together for 4 years before that last 5th year spiraled into silence. We had chosen different topics of study. He, the invincible topics of Contract Law and Torts and me, the near-death experiences being researched at Berkeley, and the study of anthropomorphic sound development in Cro-Magnon anthropological studies. Interesting, for us individually, death for the relationship. 


We stopped talking, as neither one of us were interested in the other's discoveries and excitement garnered from them. We stopped dancing together, going on weekend jaunts, and then we stopped loving one another. Silence came quietly into our lives. I wondered, many times, what could be done to dislodge it from our home in Berkeley. It was too late. Our minds had turned away from each other, as the cosmic wheel of our destinies spun into the ethers. 


That night, sitting before the twin fireplaces, in a beautiful room, over-looking Horsehead Bay, something lovely happened for me, which made me realize he had followed his heart and was happy, and I, mine. 


He was talking to another guest about music of which he has an incredible knowledge. Ask him any song title, and he could tell you the composer, musician, who they were married too, who they lived with, when they played which coliseum, and which bands they had been in before and after. 


In the middle of this conversation, he turned to me and said: "Danise, do you remember the night we went to the Cellar Door ( in D.C.) and Tom Waits ended the set and pulled the can of beer out of his coat jacket pocket and drank it at the piano? It was half empty, remember." I did. We had become fans of Tom and eventually, friends -though distant, since we lived in D.C. and Alexandria, VA when Tom was doing his best to make it to the top. I liked Waits and I realized there were good memories between us, because of our love of music.


When I left that night, I had done a few shots of the Herradura Seleccion Suprema Tequila Extra Anejo, which is smooth as silk, and I highly recommend it should you run into an old lover/spouse/etc., unexpectedly. There was clarity of thought as I drove across the Narrows Bridge, home, late that night.

The best part of the drive home was realizing, we had not parted from boredom, we had parted because our lives needed to go in different directions, alone, to pursue our lives and hearts' missions. 

When I walked into my house, that evening, I was happy because another false premise, about a  good, ole' Southern boy, had perished when a happy memory, of times past, converged into a discussion, between a man and a woman, who had once been friends and lovers, with the knowledge we had meant something to each other, at one time, and it had been good.


So, in the early morning moonlight, I released the last male phantom, of my past. 
Sitting on my back deck, under the April moon, at 3 a.m., the final relationship was sealed with jubilance and gratitude, finally.I was now unshackled from false suppositions of why those relationships had ended for me. I knew the truth and it was a simple truth. 


I may be free to love again. Not so much the wild, speculative love of early years. No, to explore with the deep, abiding love born from suffering, sought in wandering and tenderly touched from a life renewed with joy and reverence. I had known men who had been my worthy adversaries and lovers. I graduated from that school of understanding past male relationships. 

Now, it is me, the woman who understands it was all worth it.  I am happy with my life, content with my past,  and can share that joy, and only that, with a man who is somewhere, out there, under the stars, and walking the earth.


He may never show up, is what you may say. 

Well, like the lovely, spiral bronze sculpture above, my wheel of destiny and wisdom turns with cosmic time, through the ethereal, sublime void of space and soul, never to be stopped by mortal fears. One day, there may be a sound I recognize which will be his breath, his heart, his atoms slowly moving across the galaxy toward me. I believe our wheels of destiny are whorling toward one another, and will one day corkscrew around one another, in a helix of consummate exaltation that we were meant to be. However, I do not seek him. He will arrive, on time, when he is ready.

I can understand the incredible joy I feel to know why those relationships ended. It was a mixture of the good, bad and ugly, as we all know they can be sometimes. I had to finally decide to look at what I did to create the end, in them all, too. Painful, sometimes holding onto my denials, however, it took me 10 years to work through it. Hopefully, it won't take you but 5 or 10 minutes. 
It is worth it though. I can breath and laugh again, without fear of being afraid to talk about it.
Your life is worthy of love and joy when you know we are all headed in the same direction. Love and Joy, Art, Music and Books, they are my plane ride away from a completed past. 
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With beauty before me, I walk
With beauty behind me, I walk
With beauty below me, I walk
With beauty above me, I walk
With beauty all around me, I walk.
In beauty it is finished.
In beauty it is finished.  ---(portion of Navajo Blessingway ceremony)

(Here is a view from my home) Lovely, isn't it?

If you need to get out this mood I have created, go turn up,Bop 'Til You Drop by the Nylons and dance around the house. I did.

The Day of Change and Peace

Today was one of great change and peace for me.

I awoke realizing I had nothing to do, and not only nothing to do, but would try to enjoy the "nothing to do" energy instead of feeling 21st century, humanoid guilt about it.

Why must we always be put into a position of feeling we need to have something to do, by others, by societal screwed-up robotic thinking? It may be true that having nothing to do, for 6 months or 6 years, would speak volumes about your/my psychoses, which would require one of us, or hey, both of us to head into some jelly-fish infested waters, on water skis (once painfully experienced near Yorktown, Virginia), or climb up into Nepal, during an ice-storm, in order to shake our lethargy from consciousness, and realize that our reality is incredible if we challenge our hearts or ignore the screams of those who are stuck in fear.

However, in my defense, the past 7 years my life has been spent willfully tied in to someone else's time clock. Today, I am able to smile at the bunny in my yard at 830 am, while I am still wearing my comfortable yoga pants and my UC Berkeley sweatshirt.

I am not in my work clothes, today, since I left my technical publishing job yesterday. As an artist, I have declared that yoga pants and french cotton t-shirts will be my writer's uniform, from this point forward, and no longer will I require, of myself, to be en-clothed in a politically-correct wardrobe, for the non-artistic workplace, such as a military base. So, first official management decision, for my new life is now signed into law. Only regret is that I should have grandfathered-it into use years ago.

Today is the first day of the search for the words to fill a 300 page book, which will be completed and sent to book agent by August 3, 2010.

Of course there will be interrupts, by life's surprises, while writing and researching the book, however, I am not tied to an unfamiliar and unknown work meister or military-industrial complex general's demands, as of 12:01 a.m. today.

Don't get me wrong, it was a great job since I knew what I was doing and doing it well. I explored and wrote about high-level architecture designs for software, which for some reason, I just had a knack at understanding. However, even I know when the time has come to take on new challenges, like learning new words, so that my spirit soars and the heart is fed.

As I rode around the planet, over the years, I spent lots of energy seeking mystics, healers and gurus and saints, to see if they were what people thought they were or would spend time exploring their energy, picking their brains, or sometimes delighting in the pure joy of seeing them face-to-face.

Always canoeing my energy into places, one might not normally go, helped me to learn things about myself and others, and sometimes even fall into the arms of some lovely man who I would never stay with forever, but, for a time, our relationship became a classroom in learning about caring, trust, and love.


There were other times,such as one day in Calcutta, when I walked into the middle of a Communist take-over, (Calcutta had a communist government then) and had to be escorted out to the airport by a tank, with a group of freaked out tourists, who thought they were going to be blown to bits. (After flying off a 50 foot hight, ice covered cliff in the Pennsylvania mountains, on a toboggan, and living to tell about it now, a tank with a cannon aimed at me, while sitting on a warm bus, is relatively safe place to be for me.).

The bus vs. the tank was tense, for sure, like all tense moments in life, which is why they are called tense moments. Then the stress ended after I was pushed through the airport, out onto the tarmac, at 3a.m and thrown on a plane to Bangalore, with, of course, the same group of frightened tourists.

At that point I would have loved a bowl of oatmeal or a mai-tai, since the tourists were more draining of my energy, then the Calcutta police and Indian Army, that night.

So, it appears I have some stories to tell, although telling them will involve lots of soul searching and, of course, lots of Mate and blueberry tea.

Getting unplugged from the old pattern will take about 3 days, and since the dark of the moon period, starts today and lasts for the next 3, it is a great time to meditate, cogitate, and resolve what I shall do with my time that will lend sustenance and peace to this planet, I call home.

It is a time of transition for me and I am peacefully entering into it. Breathing out stress, Breathing in Peace will be my practice for the next few days. Maybe you should to, as this incredible time of transition, for all of us, in the universe has made itself known in all our lives. When I think of where I was 10 years ago and how much more I love myself now, to be able to not rush wildly into the past, because it is familiar, makes me happy.

I am throwing some things together tomorrow, and heading out to photograph the new nature and baby animals arising via spring energy. Maybe I shall head up into the Mt. Rainier Valley or up the Nisqually River to photograph the new eddy's formed by this winter's snowfall. Wherever I land with the cameras, it will be the right place, the beautiful place, the place of transition and peace.

Day of Joy; Night of Prayer

I watched the Tsunami hit Japan, last weekend, from the lobby of the Hilton in Long Beach, Ca. After returning from a Jason Mraz concert, it seemed like a celebration was in order. It had been a great night.

Sitting in the lobby bar and sipping on a green tea latte, I wondered about the incongruity of place at the moment vs. the fear racing through those fighting for space and a place, on highways, as they escape possible death by tsunami. Earlier in the day, I received a text message from a friend in Ka'apa, Kauai, who said the tsunami sirens were eerie, as they blasted the entire island. Vehicles and people were jamming the small, two lane highway up from the beach, through the canyon, to the Wailua Country Store, across from the house.

Earlier that day, in spite of the tsunami warning posted for southern California-Tijuana border up to northern Oregon, I drove my rented, convertible jeep, down the coast, to Oceanside, to meet friends, arriving for lunch from TJ Playa. They had not seen the news of the 8.8 earthquake in Chile, and hence, did not realize we were having lunch at ground zero, across from the Oceanside pier.

After I told them about the earthquake and tsunami warning, Miriam and Tcat both smiled as I said that if I was going to leave the earth that afternoon, I could not imagine two better friends to share it with.

In the moments of life, when mass consciousness absorbs and interacts with a fear level, of such magnitude, sometimes the best action to take is simply to become a Balancer of Energy.Humor and sincerity can go a long way to alleviate those moments of realization about near-death.

As I drove past the nuclear domes, at the San Onofre Nuclear Generating Station, on the way down the coast, with my windows rolled down, and the Mraz CD blasting away, there was a short moment of realization that a 33 foot high wall of water could hit at that moment, and that new black Jeep convertible and I would be swimming with the tuna, let alone, a nuclear blast, perhaps would take care of turning us into fresh, grilled, atomic energy sludge.

I said my prayer of protection, surrounded me and that rental car in white light and continued on, focusing on the wicked winds and dark clouds, blowing in from the sea, and the music I was about to hear, that evening, live.

Live in the moment, stay on course, and hold on to your joy even though the world around you is slipping into the sea, or dissolving beneath your feet.

I have taught myself over the years, to once in a while remind myself that this breath, this one right now, could be my last. This practice has helped me focus my life, guiding my steps a little straighter, toward my soul's mission, and allowed joy a VIP spot in my consciousness.

There have been times in my life when death was a half breath away, however, it just was not my time. So here I sit, in my cozy two bedroom house, above the Puget Sound, 30 miles south of Seattle, a week later to the day, worrying about buying a router and hub tomorrow since my Internet cable seems to be interfering with the VOIP cable, and the net goes down for a few seconds, before it catches the pulse and re-connects to the Internet.

Sitting in the comfortable Hilton lobby last Saturday night, watching the Tokyo reports, reminders of the last tsunami to hit Japan, caused by an earthquake in Peru in the 60's, were voiced over again by reporters. Men and women, who might have known someone, in the villages of Japan, that were swept away that deadly day, so long ago.

I looked around at the hotel guests seated near me.

2 Venezuelan men were chatting about their kids and a woman was telling her husband about her day at the Queen Mary. Normal conversations in the midst of a possible terrible tragedy about to sweep away a few hundred more lives, into the Sea of Japan.

The cab driver told me about George the Greek's restaurant, on the way back from the Terrace Theater, that evening, since I told him my grandfather was from Crete. He was laughing about George and how George liked to spend time with the patrons and make everyone comfortable at his restaurant. A man who enjoyed life and those in it.

As I crawled into the wonderful Hilton bed that night, with 8 pillows and a mattress one could marry for life, I realized what a wonderful day I had and sent thanks to the universe I was alive. Then I said my prayers for those who died, who suffered and were in fear at that moment.

I realized the best thing I could do that evening, beside making love with a handsome man who loved me (yet to find me), I could pray for those who lived and died that day and thank God I could still move my lips in song and gratitude.

Preparing for Travel, Again

It is early morning, here in the Northwest, and I stepped outside to look at the moon. The moon will be full on New Year's Eve, and through the fog tonight it glows brightly behind the clouds. There will also be a lunar eclipse on the 31st, so the intensity of emotions will influence us all, as the clock marches toward 2010.

I am tired, yet unable to sleep tonight, as I correspond with people in Kauai, who I will spend time with this week. Usually, I travel Christmas Day, however, this year traveling on New Years Day seemed to be the right time to depart. Flying into the new energy of 2010 and leaving the challenges of 2009 behind is what my flight is all about, planned in advance by super-consciousness. Thank you, higher self.

This year was a year of changes for many people. Life paths were re-routed as corrections in emotions and soul purposes urged us to new places in our lives, both geographically and spiritually. As I head down my path toward 2012, I find myself calmer and encouraged by the changes I am making in my life. Some of these involved little action on my part, as past actions accumulated and forced change because of the nature of energy I had created over my lifetime.

As changes occur, my reaction to them swirls toward confusion, for a time, and then the understanding of the spiritual meaning reveals itself to me. It is then, I can breath and laugh, realizing I am heading to a better place inside my head and heart.

Unplugging from old patterns and dis-assembling mental constructs that no longer serve my soul, hurts in a number of ways. How else could I recognize joy, if not for that moment when I finally allow the attachments and controls to dissolve into the ethers?

Becoming grounded quicker is the result of allowing that which needs to be let go of, go.
Seeing the fear and pain caused by the inability of many humans, now, to recognize that which no longer serves them has been an strong undercurrent in the human dramas, this past year, has it not?

The interesting thing is we all, at some point, let go of the same things in our lives. Apart from our bodies, when we die, we also let go of homes, people we cared for at one time, people we still care for now, pets, cars, careers, relationships, addictions, and eventually that which causes disharmony which brings sorrow, illness, death or poverty to our lives, over time.

There are no beings on this earth that seek suffering. All sentient beings seek peace and harmony. How we go about it can be destructive, insane at times. In the end, before we breath our last breath, the breath of peace, hopefully, in that moment, as our last release of all the stuff we have accumulated in our lives, there is a final recognition of knowing our self as we truly are and always have been at our soul's core.

I will spend time on one of the most beautiful and powerful islands on the earth, for a while, in the next few weeks. The Garden Island also known as the rainiest place on the planet and the most remote island on earth. I will enjoy a ride in a helicopter across the Na Pali coastline and into the valleys which are so mysterious, in many ways. Sacred pools and waterfalls I shall sit by and swim in. Hoping to release some of the pain and emotional scars that I have given myself in this lifetime is the goal or at least the joy from those swims and meditations in beauty.

It is an honor for me to be taken into these places by healers and some will witness and understand the beauty of our mutual release of energy and rekindling of new energies that occur as you walk with someone who understands the healing powers at sacred places.

Something will change in me. What that will be will be revealed in my life, my actions and my writing. It could cause me to make a radical change from what I do now, to doing what I need to be doing at this point in my life because of my experiences and growth. It could also send me down that steep, slippery path of deep introspection, like when I sat in my home for 3 months, after my first trip to India, trying to assimilate all that had happened to my consciousness from that journey.

I never know the impacts these journeys have until I return and there is not any reason to worry about it anyway, because amazing and miraculous events happen at the right time, in the right place for each and every one of us. Some of the events, the meetings, what we see or experience are so profoundly intense, explaining the event to ourselves, once our soul enjoys the beauty of it, can take a long time.
The shift happens so quickly, when we walk into a forest, or across a desert, or swim in an ocean, never again returning as we were before we first entered into the power grid of nature.

Change happens in every second even though we may not recognize it. So, I do not know what will happen to change me on this journey. I so know it will be intense, I may release some tears, there will be laughter, dancing, and deep conversations with new friends that I am about to enjoy.

I know the universe supports me wherever I go, with whoever I encounter and it is up to me to figure out how important it is for my soul's purpose to keep the connection going and use the power for good.

I wish you all a wonderful new adventure for 2010. If you leave the planet before 2011, bless you on that journey also. Remember, matter is neither created nor destroyed and whatever you have created well on this planet will remain, and that which you have not managed well...Well you may get to come back and fix it next time around. Depending on what you believe about God or Spirit, you might even know your fate at heaven's door and recognize your foibles then andnever have to come back. We all have different ideas about the next part of the journey, when we close our eyes in that final flutter.

One reason I love to take myself on these journeys is to hear and see the richness of the Creator's hand across the universe, in minds, in deeds and in beauty. Namaste and Blessings for the New Year.

This is one of the most difficult of days. Moving computers to new rooms is always tedious and involves cleaning and un-scribbling wires and wires. Seems my cable connection, in the new room, is not activated and I cannot reach the internet from here. Comcast said it was,though. Who should I believe? My eyes or a provider who left this room 10 months ago? Hmm.

What to do? Relocate everything back into the living room or let it go? I could just hook up the wireless equipment and then I would not have to move anything, however, that also will take a lot of time and effort on my part, including watching the Setup Video for the software and hardware installation, the modem switches for the VOIP and cable would have to be re-wired, which could be another 2 hours lost to my life’s purpose. Today's life purpose is to get out of here by 6PM to meet friends for drinks on Jake's deck. Some of the best goat cheese stuffed calamari will be waiting for me, and a glass of cool Reisling from 2001.

It is becoming clear to me, that another 20 years of my life could be wasted by sitting and sleeping through the last days of my life, however, I am feeling a little antsy and not willing to sit through the last days of my life, on a hillside above the Puget Sound, alone, and certainly not until visiting those 1000 places, or so, I need to see and write about before I die, and posting all the travel pictures that I shall take, edit and publish for the masses who, unlike myself, may not have an opportunity to visit them.

There is a silence, today, around the neighborhood which is unusual given the fact that it is a Saturday. Perhaps it is because it is the end of summer and people begin to think ahead to winter times, and what will be required to get them and their houses through the winter months, which shall include harsh and frigid storms and winds, this year. Much worse than last year, when for 9 days we were snowed in because of a deep freeze and snow accumulation not seen on the shores of the Puget Sound in over a hundred years.

The winters have become worse over the past 22 years, since I moved here from Hawaii. At first, it was fun to experience snow on the hills in April, at Edmonds, when I moved there 20 years ago. I was snowed in many times, when no one else, East of me was snowed in because the frigid air whipping up off the Sound, from the North Pacific Ocean, would slam into the steep hills winding up the coast, along the PugetSound, dumping snow and sleet just for me.

Every year, it's a little bit colder, more snow falls, and freezing ice storms stop humans, frighten racoons and birds, sending them deeper into caves and tree stumps. The 50-70 mph winds rip off more roofs, pushes trees ontop of roofs, flip over boats, and kills more life, as animals try to cross roads to get food or shelter. This is what I am seeing living next to the forest, above the big water, in a small village on the Puget Sound.

December’s 1991 storm completely shut down Seattle, for another 7 days, when I loved and lived there. I remember walking in the middle of the carless streets, from Pioneer Square all the way to the Fish Market, and not a soul, except the snow plows, and lots of sun were out at that early morning hour. Cars and buses were abandoned in along the streets and on sidewalks.

Seattle was a frozen beauty, and I had keys to the 53^rd floor of the Blue Building downtown (that is what I called it anyway).I went up to my office, with my photo equipment and a new tripod, and took the most amazing 360 degree view pictures of the Puget Sound, the Olympic Mountains, the Cascades and Mt. Rainier covered in snow and sun, every day, until the freezing rain and snow came back and the beauty turned into a monstrous slap in the face, to those unable to get to a store for milk or toilet paper, for 4 or 5 days, because the frozen sleet, and snow bound cars left in the streets and highways were stuck there and no deliveries were coming in. Pedestrians could not walk down hills because they had turned into ski runs, the kind I grew up on back East, which meant they had morphed into hills of ice in 2 days.

Woe to those who had no alternative heat source, since the electricity was out for a week+ in some areas. Since 1991, the weather, every year, gets harsher than the previous year, yet the humans walk around still believing we have mild winters and angels will take care of them, once again, while they are stuck in homes or cars along I-5, in Winter 2009-2010. My feeling is that we will be stuck in our homes, and businesses will be closed more frequently, even longer than the hellacious December 2008 storm.

This last year, I stayed at home for 8 days while the ice storms and 24 inches of snow, at ocean level, and raging, freezing cold, high winds of ice pellets, ripped trees and power lines. The storms were unlike anything I have seen, in my years living on the Puget Sound. So, my prediction for this year is more, many more storms will come and they shall visit for longer time periods.

In any case, as you can see since this blog was updated, I bit the bullet, and re-located my office into the sun room instead. Moved some art around, too,so this is better than I planned. Planning is something that I find can be fun, once I throw away the original plans, and follow the current inspiration.

Your Ticket Home

One of the main beliefs, of Crete culture, is that the sin of Hubris was the one which all other sins emanated from, at the beginning of the universe. I have been thinking about this today and realized my ancestors were right. I am influenced by my paternal lineage, emanating from Crete. Crete existed long before the Greeks arrived, sweeping south down the Peninsula and out across the Mediterranean Sea. My grandfather never said he was Greek; he was from Crete.

When you think about murder, theft, lying, or break an oath or vow, the original sin of Hubris covers them all, it seems, to me, anyway. To act in a dishonest or cruel manner exposes the hubris, a human displays, toward planetary co-inhabitors. They believe they are above all laws of nature, and answerable to no one. They believe their acts will never be discovered. Unfortunately, sometimes, they do get away with evil deeds.

I rest, knowing, that at some point along their evolutionary path, they will hit a brick wall. They always do, although they may know not why they hit it. But, they always hit it.I have acted with hubris, toward another human. However, never did I enjoy it, nor did it bring peace to me. I always paid for my acts of hubris, for which I am grateful, after making payment to the Universe, I understood the lesson.

Conscience is a difficult concept. I tend to delve into the etymology of words- their roots. I break them down, so, Con Science, would translate to, in my mental matrix, as, 'not of science'. Yet, conscience exists.

I came to be thinking about the Sin of Hubris, in ancient Crete, today, because I found out that a friend was lying to me. She lied about me to someone; then lied to me about the other person. She revealed her Mal intentions, when she tried to manipulate me since she was too obvious, suggesting I should lie to this other person. Stay away from friends who ask you to lie. If you can't be honest in relationships, then be patient until you understand why you need to lie. Then, don't.

You may have found out a friend was lying to you, because they wanted something or someone, that you had said that you wanted-- a lot.Well, that was me.

She acted as if she had my best intentions at heart when, in reality, she had a hidden agenda, with an intent to mislead me, by omission, by suppressing the truth from me. She acted with cruelty, in a very charming way, that endears her, to other people. I have identified her as a dysfunctional caregiver. She is only happy when one is disabled, gets you to not trust others' advice. Am I the only person who knows someone like this? It totally sucked to find out she was lying to me, and now I see her passive aggressive ways.

What did I do when I found out? Well, how do I deal with a pathological liar? I just would hear more lies, from her, and she would try to get me to believe that I was wrong or revise her game plan, so she looks like the injured party. Her game is--Trust me, you are needing help, and I am the only one who knows what to do.' There is too much drama with this woman and who has the time now? Why waste the time now? Life is moving quickly, so speak your truth and move on.

"Pathological Liar" is a harsh description, however, I look at 'pathological' and it becomes 'logical pathos', which I perceive as the absence of conscience, while on a free fall, using destructive intent to harm or mislead.

So, I unplugged from her game. Yes, I can sit across a table, from her at dinner parties, engage in dialectical conversations, without revealing personal feelings. I find her hubris, overrides her ability to know that I understand her game, and so I walked off our playing field, with a slow, graceful cadence, in withdrawal, from our friendship.

Mourning should be experienced to the fullest, until all those who cry with you, stop. I mourn the death of our friendship.She has been buried and I am about to walk away from her grave.

There are relationships I need to maintain, like courtesies with neighbors, vendors and friends. When they move or die, I feel a loss. I am learning to recognize my states of hubris, when they arise now. In doing so, my conversations with strangers become easier, as my need to impress them or reveal myself, lessen.

Listening to someone else's heartbreak, or a story about their life threatening illness, is more important that trying to match them death for death, or illness for illness. I wish my old friend had not been so jealous or greedy, and spoke with truthfulness, rather than lies and deception, that revealed her ill intent toward me.

I came across something today that helped me feel better, about the fact that a person, I once trusted, no longer was trustworthy and acts of Hubris occur out of fear, which is the absence of self-love. I will forgiver her, but I will never forget the pain she caused, and the loss. I choose a different path from hers, and am happy for those who love me and remain good and faithful friends.

This excerpt is from Mike Dooley's book, More Notes from the Universe: Life, Dreams and Happiness, and it seems appropriate to end on.

To give beyond reason.To care beyond Hope.To love without limit.

To reach, stretch and dream in spite of fear.

These are the hallmarks of Divinity-Traits of the Immortal-

Your badges of honor, and your ticket home.